Chapter 203 Before Marriage

China successfully took over the Mazu Islands.

Chen Yuanguang is far away from the front line, but he feels refreshed just by reading the news. As a Chinese, his recent actions are most in line with mainstream public opinion and can arouse the national pride of the vast majority of Chinese people.

Even the gods on the Internet would be excited to see Mazu being taken back.

Not to mention Chen Yuanguang.

Before, netizens would feel cowardly, but now all such voices have disappeared.

Because once you succeed, your previous cowardice will no longer be a problem, and you will be as powerful as thunder.

If you succeed, all your previous tolerance can be regarded as strategic determination.

It’s like the ancient nomadic peoples entering the Pass. Before entering, they were barbarians, but after successfully entering, you became the orthodox dynasty, and there would be great scholars to debate for you.

"Great, so great, it's like floating on the white cloud." After capturing Mazu, Chen Qingzhi, who had flown to Mianyang that evening to see his son and wait to celebrate the New Year with Chen Yuanguang, was extremely excited and had to run to a nearby liquor store to buy a bottle of Wuliangye.

"I heard that Jibei was taken back from outside the city. When I first heard it, my clothes were soaked with tears." Chen Qingzhi said, "I thought I had told my father about this during the family sacrifice, but I didn't expect to see this in my lifetime."

Chen Yuanguang said: "Dad, how is that possible? You are only in your early fifties now. You still have decades to live. You can definitely see the recovery of 4V."

Chen Qingzhi waved his hand: "No, no, no, strength and mentality are not the same thing. Before it is actually done, even if the probability is 99%, it has not happened yet, right?"

“No one dares to make a conclusion about something that has not happened, let alone our generation, although I believe that our military strength is definitely much stronger than it was back then.

But no one is sure what will happen if a real fight breaks out.”

Chen Yuanguang asked: "I can understand your feelings, because I am equally excited, but isn't it a bit exaggerated to describe it as the sudden news of the conquest of Jibei from the outside world?

Isn't this just the Mazu Islands?
If we look at the progress, we haven’t even reached 100% of the 20% progress.”

Chen Qingzhi thought for a while and said, "Yuan Guang, that's not the case. We have always had the strength to show our swords. What I was worried about before was that we didn't have the courage and confidence to show our swords.

It has always been criticized that some people have a large amount of assets in America, but because these assets are at risk of being seized, they have been afraid to show their swords.

Now that this doubt has been dispelled, the progress has been pushed to 100%, and it is only a matter of time before we pass the level.

In other words, the initiative has now changed hands, do you understand?
Previously, on this issue, America had always given us the test papers to answer, and now it is our turn to give them the test papers.

Do you want to move? How do you want to move? What measures do you plan to take afterwards? Now that you have failed in two places, do you dare to fail in a third place?

In short, the situation has been reversed now. What I said before was a propaganda slogan. No matter how confident you are in the propaganda, in the real world, you will still be asked questions by others and have them answered.

After this time, I truly have the initiative in my hands.

First Mazu, then Kinmen, and then Penghu, each outlying island is like pulling out nails, what would you do?
If you dare to transport the equipment to Penghu, I will take action before you. The satellites are watching you in the sky.

This is the first time in history that a reversal has occurred.”

Chen Qingzhi had already filled up the glass. "After all the bottles are collected, I will not drink Wuliangye, but Maotai."

After chatting with Chen Qingzhi for a while, Chen Yuanguang briefly told him about Lin Jia's plan to get married.

After Chen Qingzhi heard
"Getting married? Your age is just right, not too early or too late.

As for Lin Jia, he is a nice person, and as a relationship we had in college, it was relatively simple, with far fewer factors of interest involved than if you were to understand it now.

I think it’s good.”

Chen Qingzhi nodded after listening, then thought for a moment and said, "You are already an adult, and you have achieved something I never dared to think of before. I read the news reports about the recovery of Mazu this time, and you also made a very crucial contribution.

Of course, even if you have achieved nothing now, it is your freedom. As long as you don’t spend my money, you can do whatever you want. We are all adults and should respect each other’s personal space.

Whether you get married or not, or even if you want to become a monk, I have no control over you. The only thing I cannot accept is txl, but even if you are txl I will respect you.

This is a bit off topic, let's get back to marriage. From a secular perspective, my marriage was a failure because I got divorced. But from my perspective, it was very successful because it made me realize what kind of person I am, what kind of person I should not look for, and what kind of person I should look for.

Your mother and I divorced peacefully. We didn't have any disputes over property or emotions. We both lived well after the divorce. We also educated you well. I gave less and your mother gave more.

So I consider my marriage a successful one.

Therefore, from the perspective of someone who has experienced this, I would like to give you some advice: marriage is just marriage, don’t add too much meaning to it from a worldly perspective.

It's about a transaction, about being well-matched, about business, about it's no longer two people but two families, about having to be considerate of each other and so on.

These are the meanings that society imposes on marriage, attempting to put shackles on individuals.

In essence, marriage is a stronger relationship, and it is stronger than dating because it is more legally supported. It is as simple as that. If this relationship makes you uncomfortable to the point where you cannot accept it, you should break up or break up.

No matter how this relationship changes, whether in the ambiguous stage, the love stage, or the marriage stage, you must focus on your own feelings, and not consider the feelings of others.

Even if you have the next generation in the future, your own subjective feelings should come before your children's feelings.

This is my feeling, which may not be correct, but after so many years, my method has always produced good results. "

After Chen Qingzhi finished speaking, Chen Yuanguang knew that this was the other party's life principle, and the other party had been doing this all his life. "Okay, I will think about it carefully."

"Marriage requires mutual understanding and good management. It is completely different from dating." Chen's mother was also very happy when she heard this.

Her career is almost over, and she is now working as a senior executive in a state-owned enterprise because everyone knows her identity, and in such a place, position is far more important than running the business.

Because others knew her identity, she had an easy time at work, which gave Chen's mother the illusion that she could retire early.

Therefore, in her opinion, getting married is good, and it would be even better if she had grandchildren to take care of.

"Marriage is not like a relationship that is just between the two of you.

On the surface, Chen Yuanguang was smiling and listening attentively, but in his heart he was already complaining madly. No wonder his parents got divorced. The two people's ideas were simply incompatible. It would be strange if they didn't get divorced.

The two have completely opposite views on marriage.

Chen's mother's views are very secular, similar to those of the general public.

After Chen Yuanguang finished talking to his parents, he complained to Lin Jia on the phone.

Lin Jia said: "This is normal, I have met your parents, your uncle is the kind of person who is extremely self-centered and all his emotions are shown on his face.

My aunt is the type of person who is very good at reading people's expressions and can handle interpersonal relationships flawlessly. They are actually a good match for each other in the early stages.

Because the aunt's personality determines that she can tolerate the uncle during the stage of love, but human nature dictates that the closer people are to them, the less tolerant they are.

This also led to the fact that after the marriage, the aunt couldn't stand the uncle. "

Lin Jia continued, “But that’s not the point.”

Chen Yuanguang asked: "What's the point?"

"The point is, neither of them expressed any objection to us getting married.

Yuanguang, although I said before that I will be responsible for the marriage, there are still many links in the process that require your cooperation.

For example, which people to invite, their contact information, a brief introduction to the situation, etc.

I will email you the information you need to cooperate with. Please remember to fill out the form or text and reply to me. "

Chen Yuanguang was speechless: "Why can't I send it directly via WeChat via email?"

Lin Jia said: "Because I found a wedding company, I also contacted them via email, and I could forward some of the content to them directly without editing.

When sending files via WeChat, it’s easy to end up sending them back and forth and not knowing which version is correct.”

Because both parties are celebrities, they had to invite too many people to their wedding, and the news could not be kept secret at all.

"Dad, is it really that serious? Do we really need to invite so many people?
That would amount to a hundred tables. I'm afraid Yuanguang wouldn't be able to handle all the toasts, even if it's just drinking water.

What’s more important is that with a hundred tables and a thousand people, it’s impossible to handle security at this scale.

Can we keep it simple and just invite ten tables and only invite those who have good relationships with us?" Lin Jia felt his scalp tingling when he saw the guest list in the Excel spreadsheet.

Lin Qinghua said: "Just get married this time, and with Yuanguang. If we don't make a big deal about it, people will think we are doing underground work.

Security has been taken into consideration, so we are not going to have a buffet. As long as you are willing to spend money, security will not be a problem. I will definitely find the best and most professional company in the industry to do the security.

I know Yuanguang is very critical now, don't worry, I will also fully communicate with the relevant parties.

I have trimmed down this list several times before.

You can think about whether the witness will be Mr. Lei or Mr. Ma from Ali.

Or maybe it's the big boss from Shenhai."

(End of this chapter)