Chapter 57 Wow, there is a little butterfly on Ruoruo's face

“And most of the children have a herd mentality. If one person takes the lead, others will follow.

For example, in Ruoruo's case, she had a scar on her face, and when a child saw it, he would instinctively feel that Ruoruo was different from himself, and would infinitely magnify this difference and spread it everywhere.

But in fact, he didn't understand the harm such behavior would bring to Ruoruo.

Therefore, when we study educational psychology, we will especially emphasize the psychological impact that this unconscious "evil" will have on children's growth.

But once you realize this, it's easy to change.

After all, it is unconscious evil, not intentional, so as long as we reshape and establish the correct understanding, the problem will naturally be solved. "

Jiang Mengyan smiled as she looked at the group of busy children and asked Lin Han in a low voice:
"If I hadn't come out just now, would you have wanted to help Ruoruo beat up those leading kids?"

“That’s actually a little bit of the idea.”

Lin Han chuckled and held Jiang Mengyan's arm:
"But isn't it a good thing that you are here? What you said does make sense.

If I beat them up, maybe I can solve the problem for a while, but after I leave, they will probably resent Ruoruo even more and treat her badly. "

"It depends on the situation. In Ruoruo's case, the child is still young and can still be guided.

If older children engage in school bullying, that is pure evil.

In that situation, it would definitely be more effective for you to strike hard."

Jiang Mengyan chuckled:
"Let me take care of our baby when he is young, and I will give him to you when he grows up. I will make sure that they can grow up without worries."

"That's right, if anyone dares to bully my daughter, I will break his legs."

Here, Jiang Mengyan and Lin Han were discussing in a low voice about educating their children, while over there, a few little kids, under the guidance of Lin Ruo, had already carefully processed the large pot of hawthorns.

Not only were they washed thoroughly, but the cores were also taken out. The children lined up neatly and stood behind Lin Ruo, waiting for Lin Han to inspect their work.

"It's very well done. Thank you for your hard work."

Lin Han smiled and nodded: "You guys play in the yard for a while, I'll go find some sugar snowballs."

Several children cheered and started playing in the yard.

Lin Ruo subconsciously wanted to hide aside. After all, she had never been involved in such occasions before.

But this time, the little girl who had just washed hawthorns with her stopped her:

"Ruoruo, how about we play skipping rubber rope?"

"But, but I can't."

"It's okay, we'll teach you, it's very simple! Look, it's just like this."

The little girl took out a small rubber band from her pocket, stretched it out in pairs, and started to teach Lin Ruo while holding her.

In the room, the second sister-in-law didn't know what was happening outside.

After cleaning, I was about to go out with the rag when Grandma Lin stopped me.

"Second son's wife, don't go out yet, come and see."

Grandma Lin waved at her, motioning her second sister-in-law to come to her window and see what was going on in the yard.

The second sister-in-law, who didn't know what was going on, took a look and was stunned.

How come Ruoruo suddenly gets along so well with those kids?

Hasn't she always been resistant to interacting with children of the same age?

"Xiaoyan is really capable, she can make those kids behave themselves with just a few words.

Please stay in the room for a while. I feel that this may be a chance for Xiao Ruoruo to recover slowly."

Grandma said with a smile.

It is not difficult to make sugar snowballs. After a while, Lin Han came out with a large bowl of sugar snowballs.

The children, who had already smelled the aroma of fried candy, were drooling and immediately gathered around.

But he was stopped by Jiang Mengyan.

"These sugar snowballs are for everyone, but before I hand them out, I want to ask you a few questions." Jiang Mengyan's voice was sweet and soft, but her tone became more serious:
“Do you think you are a good kid?”

"Yes!"

Without any hesitation, all the children answered in unison.

"A good child is kind and upright. If he does something wrong, he will have the courage to admit his mistakes and will not bully his friends. Have you all done that?"

This time, several children hesitated.

You looked at me, I looked at you, and then secretly looked at Lin Ruo standing beside us, all of us pursed our lips and said nothing.

Finally, it was a little girl who took the initiative to speak:

"Sister, I, I bullied Ruoruo before. I am not a good kid."

She turned around, looked at Lin Ruo, and carefully took Lin Ruo's hand:

"Ruoruo, I'm sorry."

Lin Ruo blinked, and suddenly smiled with curved eyebrows:

"It's okay, I'm not angry anymore.

Besides, didn’t you just teach me how to jump rubber band? "

Seeing that Lin Ruo was no longer angry, the other children came over to apologize to her:
"Ruoruo, I'm sorry. I shouldn't have bullied you before. I won't do that again. Let's play together!"

"I have some beautiful glass marbles. I'll give you one as an apology gift!"

"I have one too, I have one too. This Ultraman card is for you."

Looking at the children gathered together, Jiang Mengyan and Lin Han looked at each other and smiled in tacit understanding.

In this way, the problem is probably solved.

"Since we are already friends, why don't we eat sugar snowballs together?
Don't take too much at a time, this is enough for you to eat."

Lin Han said with a smile.

"Ruoruo, come and eat with us!"

One of the anxious little boys wanted Lin Ruo to eat with them, so he held up a sugar snowball and handed it to Lin Ruo's mouth.

Seeing that Lin Ruo hesitated and didn't answer, he walked up and pulled off the mask on her face.

The huge burn scar on her left cheek was suddenly exposed to everyone.

Lin Ruo was stunned.

The next second, just as she was about to cry out with a grievance, Jiang Mengyan's loud exclamation interrupted Lin Ruo and the thoughts of the other children present:

"Wow! Did you see it? There is a beautiful little butterfly on Ruoruo's cheek!"

".What?"

Lin Ruo didn't react at all, and asked subconsciously: "Where...where is the little butterfly?"

"It's right here. Look, there is a little butterfly hiding here."

Jiang Mengyan took Lin Ru into her arms and gently traced the outline of a butterfly on her burn scar with her fingertips:

"It may not be clear this way. Ruoruo, wait a moment, and I will perform a little magic trick for you to make the little butterfly on your face appear, okay?"

"it is good"

Although she had an instinctive resistance to exposing the scar on her face, she nodded out of trust in Jiang Mengyan.

"Lin Han, go upstairs and take down my makeup bag."

Jiang Mengyan turned around and whispered to Lin Han.

"it is good."

Lin Han nodded. He already knew what Jiang Mengyan was going to do at the moment. Without saying a word, he went upstairs to help get Jiang Mengyan's makeup bag down.

(End of this chapter)