Chapter 180 "The Scumbag's Self-cultivation"

Lin Yicheng quit QQ and saved the chat history in a USB flash drive. This was precious tutoring material, and he would review it often when he had time.

Then he deleted the chat history on the computer, formatted the C, D and E drives all at once, and then turned off the computer.

After taking this online course with teacher Gao Yuanyuan, Lin Yicheng’s thoughts became clearer, if not suddenly enlightened.

Lin Yicheng reflected deeply on himself.

He was wrong.

Big mistakes.

After thinking for a long time, Lin Yicheng found a notebook and started writing on it.

A good memory is not as good as a good pen. This kind of experience notes must be written down with a pen to be profound.

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"The Self-cultivation of a Scumbag - A Brief Discussion of Some Key Points"

【Error 1】

Since he is already playing with two women at the same time, he is essentially a scumbag.

You shouldn't be both a high-ranking official and a low-ranking official, but should be a complete scumbag.

Look at Teacher Gao, he is at a high level and realm, and we must learn from him well.

As long as I occupy the moral high ground first, no one can blame me anymore.

As long as I have no such thing as morality, others can no longer use morality to restrain me.

Today, Teacher Gao taught me what it means to blame others instead of reflecting on yourself.

Self-reflection is pure mental exhaustion that puts yourself in trouble.

The correct approach should be: if I have made you unhappy in some way, then it must be that you have not done something well enough. Aren’t you right? You need to reflect on yourself!
The scumbag's internal strength + the boxer's boxing skills, this is the correct way to fight.

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【Error 2:】

I think I am too soft-hearted and can't stand seeing a woman cry.

Tears are a woman's best weapon and they often work wonders.

If I become soft-hearted and helpless when I see a woman crying in the future, then how can I be a scumbag?
Especially these three words "I'm sorry", I must stop saying them in the future, and I will have an irreconcilable hatred with these three words from now on!
Because once you say it, you will put yourself on the wrong side and in a weak position.

This will allow the other party to take the initiative, and their original 30% logic will suddenly become 70% or even 100%.

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Error 3:

In the past, there were too few guarantees and not enough promises.

When it comes to "painting cakes", I'm really not a good cook.

The pie must be drawn first. As for whether it can be done, that is another matter. The key is to say it.

Love is not just something that can be done.

It also needs to be said.

If I don’t tell her, how will she know that I like her and value her?

Of course, after saying it, it would be even more perfect if I could add some practical actions to let the other party see my dedication and hard work.

As for the final result, it really doesn't matter.

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【Error 4:】

Don't fall into misconceptions, step out of them and think about the problem from a different perspective.

There is no need to think about how to make them accept this kind of thing, but to find ways to let them conquer themselves and actively learn to accept and understand it.

And in order to protect their own status or interests, they actively seek my support.

Always give them a just right sense of crisis and urgency, and let them know that if they are not magnanimous enough, there are many people out there who are willing to take their place and be magnanimous.

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Error 5:

The scale is not well grasped and not flexible enough.

One piece and one piece of relaxation, the way of civility and martial arts.

The same goes for women.

Three days of hotness, two days of coldness, a light beating with a stick and an extra handful of sweet dates.

You can't just coax them all the time, you need to scare them appropriately. Ignore them for a while, leave them alone for a while, let them think wildly, and let them lose their temper first.

(Note: The most important thing here is the scale, that is, the timing. It should not be used frequently, but should be used at critical moments and in critical places.)
After finishing writing, Lin Yicheng nodded with satisfaction. His handwriting was really beautiful.

After thinking about it, Lin Yicheng felt a little worried and added another sentence at the end.

[Script synopsis, top secret]

Well, if someone sees it, there is an explanation. This is just a script. What does it have to do with him, Lin Yicheng?
You have learned and summarized, and now it’s time to try it out in practice.

Practice is the only criterion for testing truth.

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Lin Yicheng took out his cell phone and sent a text message to Jing Tian.

"Tiantian, are you home yet?"

After a while, the text message alert ringtone rang.

"Big Orange, I just got home and was about to send you a text message."

"This is called a tacit understanding, which shows that we have a special tacit understanding between us."

After sending this message, without waiting for Jing Tian to reply, Lin Yicheng typed a string of messages and sent them.

"Tiantian, you will join Xinghe Film and Television in the future, right?"

Within seconds, the reply came.

"Yeah, didn't we agree on that?"

Lin Yicheng's mouth corners raised and his fingers kept moving.

"I brought the stars to give to you, but I still feel that they are not as good as you."

As for the cheesy love words, there was too much of this kind in the information explosion in the previous life. Even though Lin Yicheng had never eaten pork, he had seen pigs run.

Although I couldn’t see Jing Tian’s expression, I could guess that the little girl must be blushing and a little confused, not knowing what to reply.

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Strike while the iron is hot and pursue victory.

"Over the years, I have traveled to many places, but I have been around mountains and rivers, but I can't get around you."

"I have met many people over the years, but I found that because I have a perfect person in my heart, everyone I see is a little bit inferior."

"Over the years, I don't know where the road ahead is or how glorious it will be, but what I am sure of is that our future is heading in the same direction, and it is the only direction."

Three text messages were sent in succession, but there was no movement from the other side. Lin Yicheng was not in a hurry and let the bullets fly for a while.

After a long while, Jingtian's text message finally arrived.

"Big Orange, is everything you said true?"

Lin Yicheng knew that Jing Tian must be feeling uneasy at this moment. The bullet that had just flown out had turned into a bomb, creating waves in her heart.

Lin Yicheng smiled and said, "It's not strong enough. Keep going!"
"Do you know? There are five kinds of sweetness in this world: slightly sweet, three-point sweet, five-point sweet, seven-point sweet, and one kind, which is Jing Tian, ​​which belongs to me."

After sending this message, Lin Yicheng decided to deliver the final blow.

“Sweetie baby, my wish is not big, but I need your participation.

For the rest of our lives, we will walk hand in hand under the sunset; for the rest of our lives, we will watch the waxing and waning of the moon together;

For the rest of my life, we will share the daily necessities and the daily life. For the rest of my life, I will only have eyes for you and the romance. For the rest of my life, I will only take one ticket to drink.

For the rest of my life, I will never think that time is too short; for the rest of my life, I will share the joys and sorrows with you.

For the rest of my life, I will be the happiest person because I have you."

Talking about getting married, talking about marrying her, is too vulgar and too practical. What if Jing Tian really gets carried away and drags him to get the certificate? Wouldn't that be the end of him?

Just talking about the rest of life and the future, the weight is heavy enough and the hint is strong enough, but there is no substantial guarantee or promise.

perfect!

Lin Yicheng started typing again.

"Tiantian baby, Lao Wang is here to see me. There's something to deal with over at the crew. I'll go first and I'll come back to see you when I'm done."

After sending the message, Lin Yicheng turned off his phone.

Oh, I just don’t believe that little girl Jingtian can bear this.

This wave is a dimensionality reduction attack achieved by the wisdom of later generations!
　I used the air conditioner yesterday and caught a cold.

I slept for half a day and chatted in the group for half a day.

I'll post two chapters first, and then the rest at noon.

　
(End of this chapter)